This morning I played golf with some friends and was reminded of how much I miss playing. I was also reminded of how few women I see when I am out on the course or at the driving range. My friends and I felt a little like a rare species being watched at a zoo… Thirty-something women on the golf course? Not partnered with men? They didn’t know what to do with us.

I am not a great golfer, but despite its challenges and frustrations, there is no sport I enjoy playing more. And I wish more of my girlfriends would join me on the links. Come to think of it, I think a golf outing would make for a fabulous party with the gals.  Golf weekends… golf bachelorette parties… golf wedding showers. The possibilities are endless!

Thinking back, one of my all-time favorite parties was when my husband (boyfriend, then) threw a surprise golf birthday party for me — complete with adorable trophies for the longest drive and best putt. And while that party was co-ed, it would work just as easily with women only.

A golf party doesn’t have to mean 18 holes on a PGA course (though that would be fun!). You could:

• Reserve spaces at a driving range;
• Play nine holes at a local executive course; or
• Arrange for a pro to give a group lesson

Whatever you organize, just make sure guests know you are out to have fun. Pair patient golfers with less-experienced ones, and don’t put too much emphasis on scoring (unless you want to!). Award prizes for traditional milestones like longest drive or putt, but also incorporate lighthearted awards like “Most Original Swing” or  ”Biggest Shank.”

This invitation package would be a great way to pique friends’ interest in the gathering while providing all the details they need.

Oh, and wouldn’t these make great party gifts — especially if they were monogrammed?