A dear friend of mine sent me a handwritten note the other day. It was such a treat to peer in the mailbox and see it nestled in with all the junk mail and circulars. How thoughtful it was!

I’ve written before about the value of writing a handwritten note. I think it unfortunate that so few notes are written and mailed these days. Email and text messages have overtaken pen and paper. Formality has been swallowed up by convenience and expediency.

What one of us does not like to receive a handwritten letter or card? And yet so few of us take the time to send letters ourselves. (I am guilty of this, too.)

Having notecards on hand — be they personalized or not — is the first step toward getting motivated to send notes. Stumped on what to say? Real Simple has some great ideas for sentiments for all kinds of occasions — birthday, celebratory, thank you, and condolence. Emily Post is always a helpful resource to turn to for correspondence tips and etiquette.

The notes need not be elaborate or fancy. It truly is the thought that counts. Next time the occasion presents itself, take a moment to drop a note in the mail. The recipient will be so thankful.